Apr 8, - I am a girl and I don't feel anything when I have sex.. I lost my virginity last week & I didn't bleed and it didn't hurt.. is there something wrong. A woman may not know her hymen has broken, because it doesn't always cause pain or noticeable bleeding. Having a broken hymen therefore doesn't necessarily mean a woman has lost her virginity. If you're concerned about bleeding after sex, get advice from your GP or your nearest sexual health clinic.What causes a woman to · Why does sex hurt? · 15 things you should know.